Karen -- AdamWithers.ca

Karen Vacation 2020:

Eat/drink less and move more -- Dry January (can turn into dry February) - special occasions only (MY Birthday)
Not eat out for 1-6 months -- no ordering in or restaurants, special occasions only
Eat a salad/veggies a day for 30 days in a row -- stir fries/cooked veggies count
Meal prep for the week (cook on Sundays -- heat and serve Monday to Friday)
30-60 minute walk every day
Body Boss Circuit (and stick with it for 12 weeks)
Run around Thetis lake without stopping
FULL Yoga class
TC 10K - it's been too long

Go camping in a TENT -- it's been too long
Cruise -- Alaska, Caribbean, European
Ride my bike around Salt Spring Island
Road trip across Canada via car or train
Visit Mt St Helens
Visit Sea Lion Caves, Eugene Oregon.
Disneyland
ski dive
Snowshoeing
Scotland, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, London, Thailand...
New Orleans -- eat Craw fish
Have a romantic weekend/trip planned for me without my knowledge (Must give adam a list by Feb. Tofino,)
scuba diving lessons
Rowing Lessons
White Water Rapids
Step class (for exercise)

Add more color into my wardrobe (less black)
Be more present (less screen time) more human contact.
Appreciate the good and bad in my life
Tell/show friends and family I love them more
Trust someone fully -- with my life
Be more spontaneous
Find a place to live (Be more settled, genuinely happy)
Forgive my mother (because it's rented too much head space)
Eventually forgive the Ex-Husband as it's not years wasted, (there HAS to be a lesson in there)
Set boundaries and stick to them -- remove toxic people from my life (see above)
Get Legally Divorced (this process can start August 3rd 2019).
Send Divorce List; Talk to to Lawyer; Talk to Gillian.
Grow my hair long again

Please minimize contact with me.
TXT or Email me regarding issues pretaining to the divorce, spliting finances, cars.
I will get all my stuff by January XXX. Please meet me on Jan YYY to go through the splitting of stuff. We will discuss who's is who's, and then please give me space to pack it up.
In July, when our cellphone contracts are up, please remove your number from the Rogers account.
Please remove my name from the title + Loan for the Veloster. And provide me proof. (A Picture of the Paperwork / Contract is fine.)
Please remove my name from Emergency Contacts.
It is not appropriate to call me/TXT dozens of times in an hour/day. I don't want to want block you, but will if I have to. So:
Please only call in a dire emergency. Emergencies such as Life and Death, serious injury. You needing a ride, or someone to talk to is NOT an emergency

Because what happened with Chris.
Leave me there until I'm better. Don't make me go then.
Don't tell other my inner workings of my hospital stay. And just a cliff notes of my diagnosis.
Will me care we been as less serious if I am leaving on day trips.
I like trashy magazines.
Donate all organs and everything. No Live Support to make you feel better.