Requires Clarification:
Updated 6 years ago
In the interests of growing, and learning, I open myself up to feedback.Use this forums to give **specific** examples of comments I make that are bullying, rude, demeaning, or insulting.
If relevant, provide **specific** words that could have been used to convey the same message.
I will clear up, provide further explanation+clarity+references, change my wording, or barring that delete and apologize.
I made this a separate page so that it doesn't detract from the original conversation, and I can reflect on it in the future.
I feel I can stand behind all of my comments, (though sometimes people misread/ignore the tone (Smily face: Friendly; Tongue Face: Cheeky / joke).
I enjoying clarifying and refining my thoughts and getting to real solutions agreements, and consensus.
I am proud I tend to accomplish this in many difficult, drawn out, debates, where I find consensus and 99% agreement.
In my defense, I get a TON of very-encouraging daily feedback (far more than just likes) and many productive conversations.
Scrolling through my feed, I see 300 specific examples of people encouraging+thanking me for information, comments, lists, feedback, and humour--just this in the last 24 hours alone.
As an example, this is just my Facebook feed TODAY of all the comments I made.
This is the entire feed of positivity, barring for one exception, and the creation of this group.
No angry's or no mean comments, no hurt feelings.
Often with agreement and consensuses!
Constructive conversation on very divisive issues most people don't even try to tackle.
Pipelines, Trump, Alternative Medicine, Death, Milk, Guns, Refugees.
All that today, and this is a typical day!
I think that might be the one exception this month.